@pratik I see what youāre saying for the most part.
you should judge people based on that.
Thatās the thing. I can't do this most of the time. I don't think I want to either, again, because I donāt see passive existence on widely used platforms as a form of support. Most people who use tools that ended up being controversial don't do it to support those tools but to meet their personal and professional needs, whatever they may be.
I appreciate you taking my point about Meta not as whataboutism but as me inferring that situations of both Substack and Meta are terrible, whatever their relative badness per each mind maybe. For some it's easier to dump one over the other, and they can do so if they feel like it. But they canāt expect others to do the same, and certainly not near-instantly. That's the part that gets me.
People use a variety of value judgments, which often are subject to change, to justify their choices. All I expect in people is to keep an open mind and be open to change regardless of whether they change in the immediate future or not.
I wholeheartedly agree with you there.
@mercymorbid
And there is another point to consider as well: marginalized folks of all kinds have ceded a lot of ground on the internet, thus making it much easier for Nazis and their ilk to spread their views uncontested. Safety matters, but eventually we will need to start pushing back, or else we will be silenced.
I tend to have the same view, in the sense that if there's too much disconnect, groups will isolate themselves into non-nuanced bubbles and we wonāt be able to reach enough traction for good changes and off-ramps.
And thanks for chiming in to offer your perspective.