@pratik i haven’t been on mb for a couple of days so am catching up all at once and wow. I don’t understand at all what was supposedly an attack from you. You described a certain group of people (who do have privilege) as having privilege. Clear, simple, not a lot to parse there.

I do understand using rules of courtesy as a way to silence others cuz women get that shit a lot. Doing so publicly as a tactic of social shaming to get someone in line is gross. Sad to see it on mb.

I know exactly zero about community moderation. I can imagine it’s a difficult job.

My son recently had a false report filed against him. After reviewing the statements and interviewing the people involved, the caseworker changed the status to an “inappropriate report.” That seems about right for this situation too.