Iām exhausted of the attacks. After a nice morning with friends, I had to rush back to my momās bedside at rehab to hold her hand, talking to the doctor, all while people online were again questioning my integrity. Iāve said this before: you donāt know what people are going through. Give them space.
@manton some days I question my enthusiasm for the internet. In an effort to bring clean drinking water to the masses we gave many a new place to piss in.
Best thoughts for your mother. Itās rough.
@manton Why some people think they need to attack every perceived misstep on the internet is beyond me. Illegitimati non carborundum.
@manton Much empathy. Social media really can bring the worst of humanity to our doorstep sometimes. All the very best.
@manton It is ridiculous that you have to deal with this targeted harassment. Keep up the good work. Best to you, your mom and your friends.
@manton Sorry, Manton. I for one appreciate the work you do. Micro.blogās helped me better regulate my own relationship with the internet by making me slow down and avoid the noise. Thanks for your consistent work. Peace be with you and your mother.
@manton Iām sorry you are dealing with this. Both angles of it. Iām wishing the best outcome for your mother. Take care.
@manton Not going to lie, this reminds me of the worst of blogging from the early 2000s. I remember, because i was there, but yeah, this is where (for your own mental health), you turn off comments or block people and move on with your life.
@manton doesnāt sound that good when you talk about your mom. I wish you all the strength you need to handle the situation youāre going through.
@manton Iām sorry, family stuff is challenge enough on its own without the extra on top. Praying for a swift recovery for your mom and strength for you and your family.
@manton I canāt imagine why people would attack you because you are a nice person. š
Try to put them out of your mind. So sorry to hear about your mom. I hope the treatment is successful. Well done to you for being there for her. Time spent with her is important and what youāll remember most and look back on.
@dfgomes @manton The problem is that sometimes you can be too nice, and sometimes you can give people too much of the benefit of the doubt. Rather than de-platform a transphobic agitator, Bluesky changed their ToS so they āwouldnāt have toā and then Blueskyās CEO made fun of someone asking why that agitator wasnāt banned by equating their transphobia to a simple difference of opinion. No matter how nice theyāve been otherwise, no decent person will support that.
