kaa
kaa

I failed at something that I have been working towards most of my professional life.

It’s a bitter pill to swallow and no doubt I will have enough time ahead of me to review and analyses and do better in the future.

My biggest challenge will be to keep my enthusiasm.

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donmacdonald
donmacdonald

@mmarfil @kaa I’m sorry to hear about it as well. On the internet, it can seem like life is an unending string of stunning successes, because that's what we choose to present to the world. But these kinds of setback happen to us all, they are part of life. Throw yourself back into work if you like, but it's also fine to go fallow for a bit, to recharge yourself for your next effort.

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donmacdonald
donmacdonald

@mmarfil @kaa For example, I was unable to find a publisher for my graphic novel Machiavelli I worked an extremely long time on it, and it was very discouraging…but it's a bit niche, as they say. Published it on the web instead and got some decent response, then did a Kickstarter to publish a print version myself. It all worked out pretty well in the end. I even got a TEDx talk out of it! So you never know…the path you had imagined to be the right one isn’t always the way you're going to go.

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kitt
kitt

@kaa I'm sorry to hear. Remote hugs and support from a stranger.

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donmacdonald
donmacdonald

@mmarfil Thank you!

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kaa
kaa

@kitt Thanks, much appreciated. I'll get over it, it's just really raw at the moment.

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kaa
kaa

@donmacdonald Yup, I absolutely hear you. To be honest, I don't think I would be handling it as well as I am if I hadn't gotten into Stoicsm 6 months ago. I'm still a complete noob, but at least I understand some of the basics to allow me to try and weather this time, with a neutral attitude.

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kaa
kaa

@mmarfil Yeah, it's going to take a little while. Ego being the biggest obstacle as it's taken a bit of a beating at the moment. Just really need to get over that mental block, see how to get back up on the horse.

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