@davidmarsden I think I’m in a similar situation as you David, I’m happy with micro.blog overall as a service. I strongly agree with all of the things @manton has done to avoid toxic virality (no likes, follower-counts etc). I’m also considering upgrading my account, adding another blog, adding audio. I have no intention of leaving.
I also (respectfully) disagree with the framing of Denny’s original post, in point of fact it was easy for me (as a newcomer) to “discover” Denny back when he was on micro.blog. he was impossible to miss. and i follow and read him (through my micro.blog) to this day, a demonstration of the platform’s functional openness.
but there remains the micro.blog Discover feed problem, and it blurs into a “micro.blog and women” problem. if discovery were a priority for me, it might upset me more. (for discovery I place myself in the hands of Allah) BUT maybe it should upset me anyway. This is bound to impact the kinds of writers and readers that micro.blog attracts and supports. it’s also embarrassing, and it prevents me from recommending the platform wholeheartedly to others, who may not share my quirks.
Discover does feel like a vestigial limb. It shrinks in importance once people spend some time on the platform, because the platform is so small (as far as I can tell). After that, it doesn’t create a “silo” or echo chamber. but to outsiders and newcomers, it signals that micro.blog is the opposite of punk.
If it were a coffeeshop, (like @jsonbecker ’s example from the other thread), right now Discover feels like a Starbucks in the basement of the corporate compound where everybody works. If it were up to me, I would aim more for an indie coffeeshop in Dupont Circle circa 1996. Good coffeeshops feature local riffraff, including expressions of intense emotion, political opinion, various counter-cultures, amateur creativity, zines etc. In indie establishments, which micro.blog purports to be, casual conversations often do begin with hard, controversial, strongly-felt feelings.
But it’s not up to me. Manton has his own feelings regarding toxicity and he seems pretty fixed on them. I guess women raise his blood pressure too much? (one is left to assume.) sometimes i just think about all the hidden wives. (omg David, can you create an AI band called “the hidden wives of Discover”??)
not every criticism comes from an enemy. I don’t envy Manton’s job, being a platform boss turns people crazy for reasons, having the blast of social media vitriol constantly pointed at them. but I think that’s why he (still) needs to delegate “community” management. Not to solve the problem (it might be unsolvable), but to prevent its maddening absurdity. this too is terrible for users’ mental health.
I’m still not about to leave over this, everywhere is absurd these days and there are far worse fates than being un-Discovered.