@ohBananaJoe I think most people spend their whole life trying to find out. I’m not sure at 52 either, but I discover things now and then.
@ohBananaJoe Keep in mind that we’re always becoming a new person. Who we are today is not who we were yesterday, or 20 years ago. I think it’s far more usful to figure out who we want to be and strive for that. 😀
@ohBananaJoe I’ve changed periodically over the last 37 years, so I don’t think we ever know who we are.
We are what we are at a given moment, but it never ends there. We keep evolving, transforming, transcending.
Funny thing is, we usually only notice we’ve reached one step when we’re already moving on to another.
And that is the beauty of it.
@ohBananaJoe I’m almost 40 as well, all I know is that I am the father of two beautiful ladies and husband to another beautiful human. I just go by that.
@ohBananaJoe 53, here. Would like to imagine there’s still more to uncover. And I, too, have that work to do
@ohBananaJoe Perhaps there is more depth to you than there is to those other people. Or maybe you just don’t know how unsure of themselves those other people are. Either way, try not to compare yourself to other people. We all do, and it usually ends up making us feel bad.
@ohBananaJoe As I approached 40, I decided people who seem to know who they are actually are just comfortable in the not knowing. Like @Gaby, I am only certain of my family relationships. All else is perpetually in flux.