@danielpunkass @manton Just listened to the most recent CoreInt. A while back I was looking into open source chat software. If I remember correctly, one couldn’t make a server/handle completely private. RocketChat looks to be a more private option—easy to spin up an instance too.
@manton Welcome! I, with my very rudimentary sys admin knowledge, was able to get a Digital Ocean server up and running in about 30 minutes. And most of that was changing settings through the web interface.