It turns out Meta will sometimes *deny* requests to not use your content in their #genAI bullshit. I submitted a "request" and they denied it without cause or explanation.
So accordingly I've just updated my personal ToS: if anyone uses Meta generative AI to make anything that resembles me or anyone in my family I will kick Mark Zuckerberg in the balls. If he wants to opt out of this agreement he can go to hell.