@anniegreens I’m sorry to hear that you had those interactions over there. I know I’m not the best person in reading other people, or responding in a timely manner, so if it was me, I apologise. I can be such a jerk sometimes. No ill intended.
As for who you made uncomfortable, I don’t understand how that could have happened. You come over as a thoughtful and respectful person to me.
I hope you’ll stick around here, and maybe find a “backup place” also, where there are good server rules, (that are being enforced), so that you can breathe and root out any problems easily.