Most of us have temptations to police other people.

When that desire hits, it can help to consider:

• is this about them or about me?
• are we in a relationship of mutual accountability?
• is this about thoughts or behaviors?
• would my response be proportional?
• would my response have the intended effect?

@toddgrotenhuis Bookmarked.

@toddgrotenhuis also bookmarked

@toddgrotenhuis Great checklist!

@toddgrotenhuis Like just war theory for pacifists.

@dwalbert Ha!