@jwhevans Sorry to hear that but it also sounds like it did you some good - positive from the negative. Thanks, I'm sure I will eventually. Things need to change but it's finding the mechanism to make it happen.
@colinwalker there must be a lot of people thinking this way. For me, all this coincided with a planned change, but the situation frustrated that. So, I’ve been pretty quiet for 3 months (even for me) using the time and space to work something else out. We’ll see, but things have changed whatever.