@ReaderJohn I’m sure we do have different priors. With all the usual caveats about mental illness and suicide, I do not see suicide as morally problematic. I take the more Stoic view of it. On this see Marcus Aurelius and the possibly apocryphal quote from Seneca. (I apologize for the poor quality of the links but I’m about to walk out the door.) This also indicates to me that the acceptability of suicide as an option is not simply the result of any modern idolatry but is a possibility in one of the most important and influential philosophies of the ancient world. As with other issues, the arguments against euthanasia often do not recognize how dependent they are on a Christian worldview.
As for the article itself, she says we should accept that dying is “a time of profound need, copious bodily effluvia, and reliance on another’s strength.” What does “accept” mean here? Recognition that it happens? Well obviously. Accept that we must endure it? Why?
“We are heavier in our old age, requiring more helpers to carry and clean us, but also freighted with shame.” Again, we must take on this shame, no matter what? Why?