@smokey @simonwoods @kitt I seem to be the only one who hasn't seen the original exchange. I didn't know how to find it. On a thread today I got a reply I didn't understand, queried it & got no reply. Then I wondered, was the 1106 person just making a joke I didn't get? Was I being mocked, but I'm too dumb to get it? Is this what Manton referred to as "something about Twitter that seems to encourage snark and being the first to a joke" in Simon's serious thinkers thread today? I'm trying to understand what kind of behavior the community standards actually forbid. They don't seem to spell out the sort of things people actually find upsetting. I think the honeymoon may be over and I'm being a little wary. I'm trying to arm myself with some understanding about the subtle ways some folks behave these days.