i made my teens this diagram of dating options. wonder if they’ll pay any attention to it. (we like different, but it’s not all good dating material)

@Annie Haha, that’s an interesting way of breaking it down! I definitely spent too much time with dudes in the “interesting asshole” zone when I was younger.

@Annie haha this is so good, different gets me every time, I’d often end up in “fun but needy” and I just don’t have time or energy for that anymore, I pretty much always avoided competent because I have a zero asshole tolerance

@anniegreens oh yeah I have gotten real sucked in by “fun and needy” which wasn’t great as for most of my life I have not had excellent boundaries. I’m much much better now. (I also find my asshole tolerance diminishing as my boundaries improve, interesting coincidence)

@Annie v cool and thoughtful mom

@Annie I hit the “bookmark” button for this post to save for later and realized how many of my bookmarks on here are @Annie bookmarks. 😜 Keep up the great posting! 💪

@iChris gawsh thanks! Gonna probably post some really stupid stuff now just because I like to self-sabotage as a treat.

@Annie Well I don’t bookmark everything you post. Let’s not get too crazy here. 😂

@iChris   🤣

@toddgrotenhuis thanks, I’m trying!  😅