If Marie Kondo can give up on having a tidy house you can give up on a whole range of crap. Celebrate quitting, cancelling and giving up. Not everything or everyone needs to be driven to the edge of sanity.
@joshua So true. I've been thinking a lot about things I choose to be bad at.
Making conscious choices along those lines, e.g. I can be good at X or good at Y, or (perhaps) mediocre at both. But I can't realistically be good at both.
It's requiring me to let go of the perfectionism that tells me: "No, try hard enough so you can be good at both" and instead make a deliberate choice.