{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1","title":"Micro.blog - Trey ","home_page_url":"https://micro.blog","feed_url":"https://micro.blog/posts/Aterris","_microblog":{"about":"https://micro.blog/about/api","id":"1375779","username":"Aterris","bio":"A fitfully partnered bear with a teenaged daughter and a lot of anxiety","pronouns":"he/him","is_following":false,"is_you":false,"following_count":2,"discover_count":0},"author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://avatars.micro.blog/avatars/2023/14/1375779.jpg"},"items":[{"id":"19531856","content_html":"<p><a href=\"https://micro.blog/jean\">@jean</a> It is a bit fraught for me; my own current circumstance colors what I see.  I really didn’t join here for community in the first place, so I feel no great loss.  What community does find it’s own, so we shall see.  Thank you for the thoughtful question.</p>\n","url":"https://micro.blog/Aterris/19531856","date_published":"2023-05-31T16:07:11+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-31 16:07","date_timestamp":1685549231,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":true,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":true}},{"id":"19531733","content_html":"<p><a href=\"https://micro.blog/jean\">@jean</a> Ah, it was the type of posts I kept seeing in the Discovery tab, and the results I got when searching for my interest terms.  In Mastodon, Tumblr, Facebook, &amp; even Twitter that was, the general/public feeds are more eclectic, varied, and wide. Here brought to mind my days in Silicon Valley &amp; life in the Bay Area- ‘professional’ is decidedly narrow, and I meant no insult. The paywall does make this space more intentional</p>\n","url":"https://micro.blog/Aterris/19531733","date_published":"2023-05-31T16:04:11+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-31 16:04","date_timestamp":1685549051,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":true,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":true}},{"id":"19519037","content_html":"<p>Honestly, I’m unsure I could find community here; as it’s so relentlessly… professional. But you never know; especially if I can start posting something interesting, je? Meantime, it’s postal I can, n see what voice I can find.  Heh</p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/30/honestly-im-unsure.html","date_published":"2023-05-31T04:12:20+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-31 04:12","date_timestamp":1685506340,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":true,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"19517287","content_html":"<p>In a rather vain attempt to divest from the more egregious companies in my orbit, I’ve been dumping out my Gmail archive into PDFs. Google (‘Don’t be evil?? Hey, just kidding…’) hasn’t been the best steward of this stuff, but hey, that’s on me really.  It’s been a deep trip down memory lane though…</p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/30/in-a-rather.html","date_published":"2023-05-31T02:16:31+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-31 02:16","date_timestamp":1685499391,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"19452128","content_html":"<p>Sploot </p>\n\n<p><img src=\"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/1000x/https%3A%2F%2FAterris.micro.blog%2Fuploads%2F2023%2Fd9077ed1f6.jpg\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\"></p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/27/sploot.html","date_published":"2023-05-28T05:45:03+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-28 05:45","date_timestamp":1685252703,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"19348756","content_html":"<p>I think it’s fixed.  Heh</p>\n\n<p>My socials, these days</p>\n\n<p>This account, which I stumble about using. \nA handful of Mastodon accounts, differentiated by topic.  I was part of the 2nd Twitter diaspora, but didn’t use it for much, until the coming of the whiney space baby.\nA tumblr, that i poke at occasionally. \nA Flickr account, when I remember it\nA defunct Livejournal- it was glorious, for a while\nA defunct instagram.\nA facebook I use still\nA Twitter that i still read through </p>\n\n<p>Of old, there was ICQ, Aim, (tho never AOL),  Yahoo chat, a variety of failed google chats, CUSeeMe, P</p>","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/23/i-think-its.html","date_published":"2023-05-24T05:51:10+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-24 05:51","date_timestamp":1684907470,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"19337611","content_html":"<p>i'm also getitng errorts saying my blog failed to be generated- whne i tried loading the given site, i got a spammy crypto blog. somethign else to get fixed...</p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/23/im-also-getitng.html","date_published":"2023-05-23T19:28:00+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-23 19:28","date_timestamp":1684870080,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"19337577","content_html":"<p>Apparently, Hide my Email doesn't  play well with micro.blog; the login site differes enough from the sign up site that Safari doesnt save the email (it's deep in Settings still, tho), which locked me out for the lst few days. Good times</p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/23/apparently-hide-my.html","date_published":"2023-05-23T19:26:54+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-23 19:26","date_timestamp":1684870014,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"19119870","content_html":"<p>The pix did show up, but I can’t expand them.  If I try to load <a href=\"http://arrestis.microblog.com\">arrestis.microblog.com</a> I get a DAO fishing page.  Agh</p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/14/the-pix-did.html","date_published":"2023-05-15T00:55:46+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-15 00:55","date_timestamp":1684112146,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"19080220","content_html":"<p>Ok. </p>\n\n<p>No pictures show up in my posts even when it says it’s uploading pictures.  And no posts are showing up at my blog site even tho that’s what the settings call for.  This is concerning </p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/12/ok-no-pictures.html","date_published":"2023-05-13T05:48:44+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-13 05:48","date_timestamp":1683956924,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"19080193","content_html":"<p>Now?</p>\n\n<p><img src=\"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/1000x/https%3A%2F%2FAterris.micro.blog%2Fuploads%2F2023%2Fbc78e55ef8.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\"></p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/12/now.html","date_published":"2023-05-13T05:45:26+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-13 05:45","date_timestamp":1683956726,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"19080186","content_html":"<p><a href=\"https://micro.blog/Aterris\">@Aterris</a> apparently it as that was supposed to be a picture.</p>\n","url":"https://micro.blog/Aterris/19080186","date_published":"2023-05-13T05:44:11+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-13 05:44","date_timestamp":1683956651,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":true,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":true}},{"id":"19080180","content_html":"<p>See?</p>\n\n<p><img src=\"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/1000x/https%3A%2F%2FAterris.micro.blog%2Fuploads%2F2023%2F56a5405eb9.jpg\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\"></p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/12/see.html","date_published":"2023-05-13T05:43:37+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-13 05:43","date_timestamp":1683956617,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":true,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"19080174","content_html":"<p>The dog is going quite well, tho my daughter is not so much- two weeks to go and she may well fail multiple classes- more classes than she was already failing. Good intentions on her part with an utter lack of consequences don’t make for a good progression. </p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/05/12/the-dog-is.html","date_published":"2023-05-13T05:43:12+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-05-13 05:43","date_timestamp":1683956592,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"18649578","content_html":"<p>No one who knows me or vice versa knows the whereabouts of this blog, save by accident or happenstance.  That’s perfectly fine; mainly this is  just me writing to myself, to see if there is anything there. </p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/04/25/no-one-who.html","date_published":"2023-04-25T20:23:00+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-04-25 20:23","date_timestamp":1682454180,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"18649515","content_html":"<p>I don’t do a lot of things that I used to do, for better &amp; for worse.  </p>\n\n<p>So what do I want to do?</p>\n\n<p>I am a gen X era gay bear, in better health than I should dare hope but facing impending issues both dire &amp; mundane. I’ve been out of work far too long, &amp; out of life to varying degrees for much longer.  I have few goals but they run at seeming cross purposes. And I still don’t know yet what I want to do with my life.  </p>\n\n<p>Drama.  </p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/04/25/i-dont-do.html","date_published":"2023-04-25T20:18:47+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-04-25 20:18","date_timestamp":1682453927,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"18649364","content_html":"<p>I have been far less sanguine about most social media since. Twitter was ever an ephemeral phase, &amp; outside of an initial exuberant burst on Facebook to announce my daughter, it never gained much trust or respect to my eye. Flickr I still value but I don’t take many pictures.</p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/04/25/i-have-been.html","date_published":"2023-04-25T20:11:27+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-04-25 20:11","date_timestamp":1682453487,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"18649303","content_html":"<p>Also, too- even from the get go on LJ I had an audience of friends &amp; compatriots, and a strong faith in the sites admins that they had good intentions, right up until they sold the site to the Russians lock, stock, and barrel.  </p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/04/25/also-too-even.html","date_published":"2023-04-25T20:07:38+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-04-25 20:07","date_timestamp":1682453258,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"18649255","content_html":"<p>When I was solitary, I had little compunction against posting online on all manner of topics both intimate &amp; mundane; my Livejournal was quite a scandal in places. But then in relationships I can never think of what to say, or have stuff too close to the bone, so to speak</p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/04/25/when-i-was.html","date_published":"2023-04-25T20:05:01+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-04-25 20:05","date_timestamp":1682453101,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"18143345","content_html":"<p>So it jobs like this: in my 50s, I’m wrestling with an old ADHD diagnosis, a new Autism diagnosis (which explains an awful lot of the last 45 years), a resumption of full time fatherhood after my ex checked out, and a loving neurodivergent partner who doesn’t seem to believe that others can be neurodivergent.  Oh, and be big functionally unemployed for 7 years.  But hey, life goes on, je?</p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/04/03/so-it-jobs.html","date_published":"2023-04-03T16:35:51+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-04-03 16:35","date_timestamp":1680539751,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}},{"id":"18133276","content_html":"<p>ok, now what?</p>\n","summary":"","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/2023/04/02/ok-now-what.html","date_published":"2023-04-03T03:30:58+00:00","author":{"name":"Trey ","url":"https://Aterris.micro.blog/","avatar":"https://cdn.micro.blog/photos/96/https%3A%2F%2Favatars.micro.blog%2Favatars%2F2023%2F14%2F1375779.jpg","_microblog":{"username":"Aterris"}},"_microblog":{"date_relative":"2023-04-03 03:30","date_timestamp":1680492658,"is_favorite":false,"is_bookmark":false,"is_deletable":false,"is_conversation":false,"is_linkpost":false,"is_mention":false,"note":"","syndication":[]}}]}