Constantly hungry for constructive criticism, and particularly hungry for guidance during this moment of my life. What could I be doing better? But asking for this is an imposition and puts people in a really uncomfortable position. Doing my best.
@benwerd Doing so is less of an imposition of you flatter the person before you ask for help. People want to be thought of as successful and helpful. You can help them with that, and they can help you with what you need. If someone won’t help you if you ask them nicely, you won’t get their attention anyway; move on.